Category Archives: gender

Self and Determination – Me and my Gender

This is gonna get complicated, and I’m not gonna get to the bottom of this right now, but I’ve been thinking about writing about this for a while, and recent events have made it more relevant so I shall have … Continue reading

Posted in Abnormality, gender, Gender Identity, Genderfuck, Mild Mania, Politics, Ramble | 10 Comments

Journeys don’t end – Learnings and Wanderings

Okay, lots of things to try and agglomerate, and my heads a bit brokes by all this, so there may be confustion. Also, can I briefly recommend Twitter, and particularly me on Twitter. I’m starting to get into this, and … Continue reading

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Towards Definitive Emancipation

So, it turns out the pope is a massive cunt. Who knew? I’m particularly impressed with the way he managed to phrase his statements so that he’s not just anti-homosexuality, but anti-any stepping out or transgression or even playfulness with … Continue reading

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Nowt so Queer as Folk

Lots going on. Sorry I haven’t posted forever. The big news, the scary news? You want it? Don’t misinterpret me though, I insist. Essentially, the other night I broke up with someone because they weren’t comfortable with my gender identity. … Continue reading

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Eye of the Beholden

Right. So I was talking to a friend the other day about beauty. It comes up a lot. I’ve also talked about it before…and I’m happy to say I’m here today to kinda disagree with a myself of a while … Continue reading

Posted in Beauty, Feminism, gender, Objectification, Trouble, Uncategorized | 12 Comments

Gendered Fucking – GenderFuck

More sex and sexuality for the boys and girls and, particularly, the in betweens or outsiders. Spent this morning flicking through a book on Genderqueer identity this morning. Particularly a chapter on definitions of transgender and how they fit into … Continue reading

Posted in Culture, gender, Identity, Rant, Self, Sexuality | 1 Comment

Sexduality

So, I’ve written about this before, kinda. Anyway, I’m writing, because I’ve got something to write about, and it’s not misery-centric, and it mightbe interesting, and my stats have plummeted, and I’ve stopped paying attention. This gives me motivation to … Continue reading

Posted in Culture, gender, Genderfuck, Personal, Politics, Ramble, Thoughts | 7 Comments

Declare Independence – Linguobatics

One way you can tell a subject is particularly contentious is if you see me taking two sides of the argument on two separate occasions. Especially if I’m the one starting the argument each time and I’m the most vociferous … Continue reading

Posted in Feminism, gender, Language, Mind, Politics, Postmodernism, Rant, Subversion | 4 Comments

Male Feminism – The Other Side of This Coin (Including a confession)

There appears to be fire in my belly. I was in a distracted state all through Tai Chi yesterday (extra long session) and didn’t feel settled or improved afterwards. I think my head was in an angry state yesterday (I … Continue reading

Posted in Anti-Porn, Feminism, gender, Masculinity, Men, Politics, Rape, Women | 8 Comments

Sleazed to Meat you

Disgusting people in this world. Still feel smypathy for them, it’s hard not to. People end up having grown up with a warped and stunted view of socialisation. I’m not sure how it happens (though I have my suspicions) but … Continue reading

Posted in Change, Feminism, gender, life, Masculinity, Me, Mind, Sexual Violence, Useless | 5 Comments

When I grow up I want to be a Monkey

So, interesting day in the news today, various bits I could mention. But what struck me as something I wanted to talk about was this business about equality in careers advice. Obviously, I think this is a good move. It’s … Continue reading

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Definitely Not Gratuitous – Erotica Eroica

Troublesome. That’s what it is. Troublesome. I’ve hit the climax see. Well. Not the climax, but the crux. This is pretty much the emotional core of the novel, which, if I need to remind you, came to me whilst masturbating … Continue reading

Posted in Erotica, Feminism, gender, Ideology, Nanowrimo, Troublesome, Writing | 9 Comments

Alternatively Mainstream – Whatever you do don’t Smash the System

So what am I grumpy about today? Well……Where to start? We’ll ignore my immediate physical state, which is one of tiredness in the midst of a thirteen hour day of incredibly busy working. Well….we won’t ignore it, so much as … Continue reading

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Is Sex Sexuality? – My Gender Agenda – PoMoLoco

So, thinking it was going to be more queer theory than it actually was I’ve been reading a book about challenging conventional ideas of gender and sexuality called Pomosexuals. It’s interesting, but it’s not what I hoped for, though I … Continue reading

Posted in Androgynism, gender, Homosexuality, Idenity, Personal, Queer Theory, Sex, Sexuality, Transgender | 11 Comments

Satisfying – Sex and the Pretty

Innacurate title really. I’m not feeling particularly pretty and I’m not getting any sex. Still…should ramp up the stats a little. First though, an aside. I lvoe my blog surfer, occasionally I find someone on there who I can’t remember … Continue reading

Posted in Experience, Feminism, gender, Learning, life, Love, Mind, Sex | 4 Comments